I am in a serious dilemma, I can barely eat or sleep. Sigh! you’ll get why soon. I met my boyfriend barely a year now we met through an unlikely source while I was on holiday in Naija last December and I didn’t take him seriously at first because he was the serious player type, always at the clubs, social scene etc. I never thought I would date him or we would even go far at all because of his lifestyle & the distance because I live in America so I lied to him I was Virgin.
The truth is I’m not a virgin o, my friends even know I’ve dated more than 4 guys. I told him I was a virgin so he would leave me alone ( I wasn’t attracted to his kind of person). Ever since I got back to Texas, we talked everyday and we became so close , he shared all his ideas & problems with me, we FaceTime everytime but I never told him I lied about being a virgin. I knew I was in trouble the day he told that he loved me. This is where my problem is, I came back to naija last month for a family wedding and he paraded me to his whole family and friends saying this is my babe she’s a virgin, good girl, I love her blah blah. He always mentioned the virgin part always. Four days before I left naija, both the happiest and saddest thing happened to me. HE PROPOSED TO ME!!!!!! at his family house. I am very happy because I am an engaged girl now but I’m sad because I’m not a virgin and that’s like the main reason why he likes me, he mentions it too much. Even his mom said after our wedding next year that our first night will be special, in my mind I was like OMG. My dilemma is , should I tell him I am not? Or just play along till the wedding next year. I don’t want to lose him at all and at the same time I don’t to take off my ring.
Please advice me.
Source: Joro Olumofin