Such a situation most likely happens in every home time to time. A man gets back from work, at night he and his wife get to bed and then he hears her say those “magic” words: “I don’t feel like it, I just want you to hold me.”
If that sounds like a familiar story, there is a great solution for it. This man has found a very persuasive argument for his wife. Surely every lady needs her husband to meet her needs and to love her regardless of her performance in bed. However, there is the other side of the medal and men deserve to be well treated by women with their sexual needs met. So, when your lady tells you the next time these words: “You’re just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man.”
You will know how exactly to make her understand you and get your point across! Here what the man has done. He took a day off to spend it with his wife. They both went out to do some shopping. They chatted merrily and had a good time. He took her to a huge store. She tried one various fancy outfit. As it happens with many women, she could not make up her mind which one to pick. He just told her to take them all! Next, they went to get some shoes for her new outfits. He agreed to all her requests and she was so excited, happy almost like having an orgasm. What next? They headed towards to the counter and he had to pay for all the things she’s got. Attention, what he did and said is just incredible! He halted and told her: “I don’t feel like it, I just want you to hold me.”
She just stopped and stared at him right there with her ajar. Then he added: “Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You’re just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman. Why can’t you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?”
I guess you get the meaning of this tale. Our needs are important, but we should also regard the needs of the other person next to us, of our significant other. This story is funny, but there is much we can learn from it.
Culled from Naij.com
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