So your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life, he tells you he wants to have his second-degree, a proper house, and a bigger car first. You sit there smiling with just a birth certificate thinking you’ll be the wife?
With the little he has, you ask for a Brazilian hair and timberland. He goes to work and goes straight to class after work; he leaves you in pajamas and still finds you in the same pajamas. While he studies, you watch Telemundo, Empire and Nigerian movies .
He comes back home to find chips and chicken in the microwave every day, the house is clean and his clothes ironed. The only serious conversation you both have is about the type of groceries you guys need. The only real skill you have is taking selfies and updating your Instagram.
The only advice you give him is “baby you need to buy new socks, the ones you bought last time are torn” nothing intelligent comes out of your mouth, no plans of making your own life better. Yes, you are pretty and no doubt about that! but so is every second girl passing by.
Do you realize something? you are not doing anything a maid can’t do. He’s going to finish school and the first thing he is going to do is ‘REPLACE HIS MAID’ because he can now afford to pay one and have a PROPER FIANCEE.
And at that time, we start hearing your famous last words “I was with him through thick and thin when he had nothing, now that he is successful he thinks I am nothing” Yes you are right. You have always been NOTHING but a maid to him.
Empower yourself to be the woman your man wants to be with. A woman who would be able to carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or his health!!!