It is so beautiful to read awesome stories like Brelyn and Tim Bowman Jr’s sweet love union! This two lovebirds made a commitment to God to wait until their wedding night before they have sex together as husband and wife which is according to God’s will for their lives. Tim proposed to Brelyn on Christmas day in 2014 after seeking her parents consent about wanting to spend the rest of his life with their beautiful daughter, Brelyn.
Brelyn made a covenant to God at the age of 13 to keep herself holy. For their wedding, which was held on the 10th of October, about 3,500 wedding guests witnessed the awesome matrimony of the couple.
“ I’ll never forget the first time I laid eyes on Brelyn Mya Freeman. Looking back, it felt like all of heaven and earth stood still in that moment. That day at the Grand Ole Opry hotel I had an encounter with the most beautiful girl I had ever seen. My swag was operating at full capacity and I knew that she was thinking the same about me. After introducing myself we had a brief conversation, and I could see that she was just as beautiful on the inside. I was in awe by how well she carried herself. I remembered thinking “beauty and brains”…. just like my mama. (hahaha). . I vow to always keep my sweetheart as happy as she makes me. Together we are going to change the world!!!”
“Tim began coming to my church once a week to assist with the music department. At that time I was attending a local college over 30 minutes away, but I would press my way to see Tim at the Monday night rehearsals. When the choir training was starting to end, we mutually knew that we never wanted to be without each other. It wasn’t long after that when Tim asked my Dad if we could date each other, and after his approval, it became official. I was so excited to be with the love of my life. It has been difficult at times because Tim lives in Michigan and I’m in Maryland but we have learned that you fight for what you love! Then Tim called me up in front of everyone saying the most beautiful words I have ever heard. My favorite part was when he got down on one knee and said, “I can’t imagine my life without you. You would make me the happiest man alive if you’d become my wife!” With tears flowing down my face I said, YES! When I saw the ring, I was in awe…He didn’t do good…he did great!!”, says Brelyn.
The happy bride posted the photo below with a lovely caption Just so we’re clear “everyone is not doing it”! It’s possible to have the man of your dreams without sex! As women it’s a natural thing for us to want to please our men in every way but is it right? Just because something is easy doesn’t mean it’s right! We must take a stand & do what’s right! If he can’t wait for you then HE’s not worth it! Know who & whose you are before you allow someone else to define you! Your worth is far above rubies darling! If you know you can’t handle being alone after 9, take your cute little self HOME! Why would he buy the car if he can test drive it at will? You’re worth waiting for ❤️. #ididit #alotofpraying #thiswaitisalmostover
Watch their Wedding Vows video below!
To read more about the Bowmans, you can visit their blog MeettheBowmans.com