Good day, Please I need your advice,
I am in a relationship with a guy whom I love with all my heart from the first time we met but I am scared of heartbreak. why? He told me he met his ex-girlfriend few days back and that his ex-girlfriend was trying to bring back old memory and one thing lead to another and they kissed each other. He said they were almost going to the next level before he cautioned her and pushed her away.
However, I find the story very hard to believe despite the fact that he told me from his mouth. I just have this feeling that there is more to the story. Now my fear is, the girl asked him to marry her because she wants to go abroad to complete her nursing career and that, if they should get married before she leaves, he would go and meet her after some couple of months but he said he didn’t agree to her plans because he is in a relationship with me and he doesn’t feel the way his ex-girlfriend feel towards him anymore. I am scared because he said his ex-girlfriend can go extra miles just to get him. I do not know what to do? should I continue the relationship or break up with him because I know he had so many good times with his ex before they broke up.
Another issue is that, his ex family are very wealthy and can give him anything he wants. I just do not know if he would change his mind because of the benefit he would get from her.
The most shocking thing is that, he asked me if it would be good for him to pretend to love her and collect everything and then divorce her later. I am not buying that idea at all because it is easier said than done.