I am in a relationship with a medical doctor. For over a year now, he has proposed to me but my problem with him is that he does not call me often, sometimes he calls once a week or three times a month. We however chat almost every day, he does not care about my welfare. This guy does not involve me in his plans I only know when he must have done whatever he wants to do. He recently bought a car and I knew nothing of it. Could distance be a problem because I have tried to address this issue, he keeps telling me he will change, blaming everything on his work.
Whenever I travel to see him, he seems to be more caring because he likes seeing me around. My love for him has not grown to the extent that I want before marriage as he wants our wedding to be around August 2014. I really want to get married this year and he is the only one around me. I have tried to discuss this issue with my friends who say it is possible for me to change him. I am so confused. I know I am the only woman in his life and I am convinced that he loves and honors me as I am a virgin and have decided to stay that way till I get married. Please advise me!