Hi, welcome to the first quarter of a good year. I’m certain you are reading this because you sure need a man before the end of another 365 days. You are either dating or single to stupor. You get oppressed by pictures you see on wedding blogs and in your head; you already have images of the perfect wedding dress, decoration, the vows and all those paparazzi’s attached to a wedding.
These are few tips you should practice to get yourself a man in 2016.
1. WORK ON YOUR ATTITUDE
Attitude goes a long way when searching for the right partner. Men are naturally put off when a lady has bad guts; you can’t expect a man to stick around when you don’t have courtesy or respect. Regardless of your career post, fame and all other things that give you ego, you must be submissive and develop a great attitude. Guys are more attracted to ladies with right attitudes.
2. INTELLIGENCE OVERLOOK
Men are more attracted to ladies that are intelligent, ladies that have something more to offer than a banging body or a pretty face. Men want to engage in intelligent conversations, they need you to help them think, so come out of the illusion that a pretty face would get you a man. You need to be a total package of beauty and brain.
3. GIVE HIM ATTENTION
A man needs attention just as a lady does, you should give him most of your time. Make him feel important, give your man reasons to stick around you. Call him, send gifts, and show him off when you need to. Men love to be cared for and pampered like babies, so as much as possible, never get too busy for your man. Remember why you need a man.
4. GO FOR EVENTS
Attend events and gatherings where you get to meet the kind of man you desire. You meet guys when you go for weddings, seminars, church services, movie premiers and other events where guys gather. Go out often, you never can tell where you meet the right one.
5. IGNORE THE LIST
I had a list of all the traits my’’ intending boo’’ should have. He should be tall, cute, pink lips, winning smile, a well-paying job, a car, a loving mom and a whole lot more. Once I’d dated a few guys and turned down a few, I realized that I had to throw what was now my mental checklist away. Why? Because it’s impossible to find a man who suits every criterion you have. Love doesn’t happen like that. You can’t dismiss a guy because he doesn’t measure up to one of your ideals. For any relationship to work there has to be more than a great job and ride, there has to be emotional compatibility.
I hope this has been of some help to you? I wish you the best as you go out to find the right man in 2016.
Culled from Palmchat
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